Unfortunately, being the wussy with women I was at the time, I refused to go after a girl who was engaged to be married. Since moving away from where I went to high school, I had kept in touch with Jamie, calling her from time to time to catch up. And when she answered the phone this Christmas Day, she was excited, as always, to hear from me. What Happened Next Was The Most Interesting Phone Call Of My Life! Usually, my phone calls with women are fairly short. Mostly because I don t like talking on the phone, but also because I want to save the good stuff for the date. In my wussy years, I would spend hours on the phone with a girl, listening to all her problems, ideas, or whatever it was she wanted to talk about that. When I started getting serious about dating women, I cut that down dramatically. But because Jamie and I a...